Hi friends,
I am sorry for posting my next blog nearly after one month. I should be more regular and I assure you to be the same in future.

Friends, today, after some days of personal worries and disappointments, I am feeling happy and lucky, because some of my friends, who are far away from me, called me and gave me pleasure to share my disappointments and worries with them.

So, let us salute our friends by discussing the subject - FRIEND. Who is the friend? And how can you get good friends? Let us take these questions one by one.

Who is a friend? Is he the person who works with you or plays with you or lives with you? He may be, but not necessarily. Some times your class mate or fellow worker may not be your friend; even you call him a friend. But a person with whom you met only once or twice can be your friend. Actually friend is a person, who knows your qualities and your shortcomings and he accept you after knowing them. He does not try to change you; he just tries to learn from your qualities and to improve you by his own qualities. Apart from it he always wants that you fulfill your destiny and he also share your sorrow and happiness. So in this communication age, he may be a person living in another city or another state or even in another country. I have many experiences about this. Lot of my friends are from different places. I have met them only once or twice, but still I call them as my friend and they also call me as their friend and we often talk on phone. They not only remember me but also share my happiness and sorrows, defeats and triumphs, disappointments and satisfaction. So they are, my real friends, not the person who is my fellow worker and would forgot me just after my departure from this place.

Now we should come to the next question - How can we get good friends? But before coming to this question, I want to ask - Is it necessary to get friends? Yes, it is. For personal improvement good friends are must. They not only help you in your voyage but also encourage you, inspire you and most importantly, give you hope that you are not alone and there is a person who may help you if you get in trouble. So it is not the matter of choice, but it is matter of necessity. You like it or not, you have to get some friends. So it is better to be friend of a good person.

But how can we get good friends and how can we know that any person may be a good friend in future? Actually good friends cannot be get, they become. But for that you have to open your mind and follow your heart. Many times, you meet a person and your heart says - He may be a useful person for me, he may be a good friend of mine in future. But due to hesitation, fear, lack of courage you ignore this voice. And by this you loose a potential friend. So to get good friends, you should follow your heart and open your mind.

I do not mean that you should try to become friend of every person you find in your way. No. Never. Your heart knows your priorities and what is right or wrong for you. So your heart would give you limited choices. You can also apply your common sense and mind. But never let the fear or hesitation comes in your way, because due to them you would not only loose a potential friend but it would also affect your personality and your openness towards world.

Apart from it, never ignore a person who wants to become your friend. He may be a better judge than you. And he may be in need of help from you or he may help you in future. Be careful, stay alert before fully knowing them, but never ignore there request, because it may contain some sign of universe. Remember - It is always easy to break a relationship than to build it."
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Hi Friends,
This is my first Blog and first of all I want to thank the technology for providing medium by which we- the common people- can present our thoughts to the world.
Friends, this blog is for CHANGE. It would be about changes which are going on, it would be about changes we wish and dream. It would be about personal changes, about political changes, about social changes, about economical changes and about every type of change, you can imagine. So it would contain every subject, from A to Z, because changes are going on everywhere and in everyone.
Friends, I am not a professional writer and not even a good communicator in English language. So my writing may contain every type of errors and shortcomings, except factual. So I expect forgiveness for them. However, I could assure you that my thoughts and writing would be something different and certainly refresh you. It would be simple also.
I hope you would enjoy my writing.